“Finding Our Voice: A First-Born Child’s Struggle in Defining One Selves Amid Family Expectations”

          It can be tough to balance familial expectations, such as those for the first-born child in a family, while still attempting to define yourself. Our family may want us to follow certain beliefs, morals, and traditions, but it’s important to keep in mind that we have the ability to build our own path in life.

          Establishing our voice and defining ourselves in the midst of familial expectations is a process that requires contemplation, self-reflection, and often tough conversations with family members. Before we can effectively communicate our ideas, feelings, and values to our families, we must first understand our own.

          It is important that we approach these conversations with our families with respect and assertiveness. We may respect and value their ideas and traditions while expressing our own wants and goals. It’s important to keep in mind that being different is okay, and that we can still love and respect our families while creating our own paths.

          A support system outside of our families can also be beneficial. Friends, teachers, or a therapist can lend a listening ear and offer advice as we navigate the difficulties of defining ourselves in the midst of family expectations.

          It’s important to keep in mind that this is a journey, not a destination. We will face challenges along the way, but with patience and perseverance, we can build a life that is true to ourselves.